<![CDATA[Marigold Lactation - Blog]]>Sun, 19 May 2024 12:02:12 -0700Weebly<![CDATA[Prenatal Breastfeeding Toolkit in English, Vietnamese and Chinese]]>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 03:49:23 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/prenatal-breastfeeding-toolkit-in-english-vietnamese-and-chineseDeveloped by the Asian Southeast Asian Pacific Islander Breastfeeding Taskforce (ASAP!) and Asian Health Services (AHS) in Alameda County, California for Chinese and Vietnamese families and health care and lactation providers.
Funding was provided by the National Association of County and City Health Officials (NACCHO) under award *2021-1 12201

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<![CDATA[Celebrate AANHPI Breastfeeding Week: Asian Postpartum Food Traditions]]>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 02:26:21 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/celebrate-aanhpi-breastfeeding-week-asian-postpartum-food-traditionsPicture
Originally posted on LLL USA New Beginnings on August 18, 2023  https://lllusa.org/celebrate-aanhpi-week-asian-postpartum-food-traditions/

One of my first cultural shocks when I first came to the U.S. from Vietnam was visiting at the hospital and seeing a newly birthing parent walking herself across the floor still attached to the IV fluid. Her baby could have just been a few hours old. All of my life before that, I only saw parents of newly born babies bound to the bed either in the hospital room or their bedroom, never to leave their home for weeks. During the immediate postpartum period, restricted movements and exposure to the outdoors, warmth, and restoring postpartum foods were necessities if not requirements.

What a contrast here in the Western world. It wasn’t a good or a bad thing; it was just different. And even though it was a shock initially, it was also, strangely, a relief. I thought of our old Eastern traditions which then seemed like a constraint, a misfit to a modern society. For many years to come, this idea allowed me to expand and adapt to the Western culture.

At the core of the Eastern belief system is the yin-yang ideology. Everything in the universe is constantly striving to reach the state of equilibrium. As I strived to expand and rise to a bright surface, I found myself longing to return and reach deeper into my own roots. In the brightest of light, it could be hard for the eyes to see. But in a deeper and darker place, the vision adjusted and I could start to see more clearly. That dark place was, surprisingly, becoming a new parent, birthing my first baby, the long days and long nights of feeding, caring for, and raising a child. In this space, I gradually saw myself in the rawest, most original, most authentic, most fitting, most Asian version of my identity. And, quite expectedly, what came with having a newly born baby was never to leave the house for a few weeks, warmth, and restoring postpartum foods.

Even though some parts of it weren’t easy (such as home confinement, no cold exposure including cold drinks, regular bath or shower!), this time I learned to not just “accept” it, but to understand why and to make sense of it, to appreciate the richness and the depth of my own culture, in the center of which is the food traditions, and specifically, postpartum food traditions that I found the most heart-warming, wonderfully scientific, deeply hydrating, greatly nourishing and amazingly delicious to those who need just all of these things the most.

Asian postpartum foods have the benefits of balancing energies and flow (“Qi”) within the body, cleansing and warming the blood, speeding up recovery from childbirth, restoring strength and vitality of the birthing parent, and, most wonderfully, bringing in an abundant breastmilk supply and supporting smooth lactation. Postpartum foods have traditionally been prepared by the grandmothers or other older family members. The beauty of it is that there are no written recipes but rather, they are passed down for generations orally. When I sent a message to my mother-in-law to ask her if she could send me the “recipes”, she didn’t respond for days. Finally, she sent a message back: “There is no recipe, just call me on the phone.” I knew it!

In my experience, Asian postpartum foods are the most delicious and labor-intensive foods ever prepared. And what made them the most delicious to me wasn’t just the foods themselves, but the comfort and warm feelings of being cared for, the association of joy and excitement of having a new baby.

Here are a few of my favorites:

Pork Knuckles and Eggs in Ginger and Sweet Vinegar Sauce

The sauce is prepared about one month prior to the expected due date.

The ingredients include ginger, vinegar, dark sweet rice vinegar, and pork knuckles. No specific measurements, just go by feel.
  • Peel and slice the fresh ginger. Marinate the ginger with salt for 30 minutes. Pan fry on the wok until completely dry so that they don’t mold during the long process.
  • In a clay pot, add dark sweet rice vinegar, sour vinegar, and the ginger. Close the lid.
  • From then, every three to four days, boil the mixture, then leave it open to completely cool, then close the lid back.
  • After the baby is born, wait for about two weeks before adding the fresh pork knuckles in the sauce in the clay pot to cook.
  • When the pork is done, add hardboiled eggs into the mix and bring everything to a boil.
  • Refrigerate when finished.
  • Serve over the next few days or even weeks.
Rationale: Ginger is warm and therefore encourages circulation within the body. Eggs provide additional protein and nutrients. The vinegars bring out the calcium in the pork bones which is depleted from pregnancy and breastfeeding (Breastfeeding is even built in our food cultures!). The pork knuckles (or chicken feet) are common in postpartum foods as the collagen released from them is deeply hydrating to the cells of the body; therefore, address the problem with insulin resistance and ultimately support smooth lactation and breastfeeding. (Good for breastfeeding, again!)

Double Boiled Chicken Soup

Ingredients include a small chicken and ginger, wood ear fungus, peanuts, Chinese cooking wine, cooking oil.
  • Cut the chicken into small pieces.
  • Peel and slice the ginger.
  • Soak the raw peanuts and wood ear fungus in water.
  • Cut the wood ear fungus into small pieces
  • Add oil, sliced ginger, chicken, peanuts, and cooking wine to the pot and stir the ingredients.
  • Pour water into the pot, add wood ear fungus. Boil the mixture on low heat for about one to two hours.
Rationale: Ginger is used in almost every postpartum dish for its great benefits (vitamin C, warming, fibers). Chicken soup includes protein, fiber, collagen, vitamins, and minerals which are known to support the immune system. Wood ear fungus is believed to prevent bleeding and blood clotting. And cooked raw peanuts in Asian culture are used as a galactagogue (supportive of lactation!).


Red Egg and Ginger

Red Egg and Ginger celebration is an important milestone in Chinese tradition. It comes from the ancient times when infant mortality was high. The birth of a child wasn’t celebrated until he/she had reached 100 days old when it was believed the child was more likely to survive. The celebration was often held in a banquet style at home or in a restaurant with family members, relatives, friends, and neighbors. In this tradition, eggs represent fertility, birth, and a renewal of life. Red, in Vietnamese and Chinese cultures, is a symbol of happiness and good fortune. And certainly, ginger is traditionally present in every postpartum dish.

The eggs are hard boiled and the shells are dyed in red color. The ginger is pickled. A plate of red eggs – in an even number for a boy and an odd number for a girl – and pickled ginger may be placed at the center of each party table for guests to take home for good luck. This is also a gesture for thanking the guests for coming and having blessed the new baby.

In celebration of the AANHPI Breastfeeding Week, I would like to invite all to explore our postpartum cultures of heart-warming and delicious foods. I hope this speaks to new Asian parents who are far away from their homes, their families, and postpartum and breastfeeding-supportive traditions. Perhaps this will bring up good memories and inspire them to reconnect with their own cultures so that these centuries-old traditions, which have always given us a sense of belonging and meaning, will continue to be passed on for generations to come.

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<![CDATA[Reflections on Weaning]]>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 01:39:43 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/reflections-on-weaningPicture
Originally posted on LLL USA New Beginnings on December 13, 2022 https://lllusa.org/uyens-story-reflections-on-weaning/

Our breastfeeding journey finally came to an end. We had a small party to mark our milestone together. I am possibly the only one who is sad as I am always on the brink of tears lately. Last night I asked if he would want to “nip” (the word he used for nursing which was the combination of “nibble” and “sip” when he used to ask me so politely sometimes: “Can I have a little nibble?”, “Can I have a little sip?”). He wanted to, but after only a few seconds, he pulled away and said there was no more milk. I asked him if he was sad, because I was. He turned away, laughed, and said, “I already ate all of it!”

Four years and three months was a long time. It seems short now that it is over. I’m thinking of the nights that I had to get up and prop myself up against the headboard of the bed to nurse that baby. I remember the pain, sleeplessness, restlessness, the road trip during which we had to take several nursing breaks, and all the times that he asked for nursing when he was hurt and upset, right before drop-off and after pick-up from the daycare. How precious it was from the first time he asked in Vietnamese “bu” until the time he understood that he had to wait.

It is hard to believe it is all behind us now. He seems to not care any less about it while I’m sitting here in our memories, finding it hard to not feel so conflicted, because there were times that I found nursing extremely exhausting, and that I couldn’t bear it any more.

Here we are today, sitting at our usual nursing spot on the couch by the windows, and the boy still looks for ways to go inside of my shirt. He sometimes says, “I drank all of it” and motions his hands from “a lot” to shrinking to nothing. Other times, he asks me “Why is it stuck?”

“The milk?” I ask him.

“Yes, why is it stuck in there?”

I ask him if it wasn’t “stuck” would he still “nip?” And he says yes!

He is still inside my shirt, not to nurse, but perhaps for the other reasons like before. He sometimes tells me he likes that my body is warm and, other times, asks me, “How does your body get so warm?” He rubs his cheeks against my skin, smelling it and still calling it his house as he also used to call “going inside my house” for nursing.

I was so touched when I first read from The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding: “Maybe weaning never happens completely.” Maybe that is true. Maybe, it isn’t the end of our journey, but of a phase, an era. I try to find comfort in knowing that a part of me is in him and will last him and protect him far beyond our last nursing.

As we only have here and now, and though sometimes I would rather sit comfortably and freely without a kid inside of my shirt, maybe I should just kiss his stinky head, be okay with feeling all my feelings, and embrace this day.

Resources

Weaning: lllusa.org/how-do-i-wean/
Gentle Toddler Weaning: lllusa.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Gentle-Toddler-Weaning.pdf
Is My Baby Self-Weaning?: www.lllusa.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Is-My-Baby-Self-Weaning.pdf

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<![CDATA[Becoming A Parent: My New “Normal”]]>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:19:51 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/becoming-a-parent-my-new-normalOriginally posted on LLL USA New Beginnings Blog on October 4, 2022 https://lllusa.org/becoming-a-parent-my-new-normal/

When my first baby was a few months old, there were days I felt so trapped. I felt that my “normal” life was pretty much over – the life where I was free to do whatever I wanted to do, to go places, to ever realize my dream. I asked a friend if that was true. She told me that I would feel “normal” again soon one day; it would come. That felt like a distant dream while I was in the thick of caring for a newborn, nursing and pumping, restless days and sleepless nights.
No one had told me that being a new parent would be so hard. I felt lost with my new identity. Running on empty, all the discomfort, sensations, and feelings were heightened. But my friend was right. Very slowly and gradually, the day came when I started to emerge from the dark bunker and see life in a different light.
I used to think that babies were so tiny and demanding of all my time and energy, and because of them, my days of freedom and my career were done (so dramatic!). But then, those babies eventually grew out of my arms, out of their baby shoes, weaned, learned to walk and run, to do cartwheels and roller skate, started school, and took field trips far out of my sight.
Even more, my career wasn’t over. It was starting over new. I always thought my babies held me back from advancing in my career. Instead, they inspired me and gave me wings to fly higher, to realize that I still could dream – for me, for them – and helped me gain the courage to make that dream a reality.
I thought I was tied to the baby and would never be able to leave my door alone for more than three minutes. But then, thanks to them, new possibilities opened up. New encounters and meanings were created in my new normal life.
Right now, somewhere, a new parent may be wishing for their life pre-baby back, and I want to go back to the night when everyone and everything was quiet and sleeping and only I stayed awake with my brand new baby in my arms, nursing the night away.

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<![CDATA[Asian South Asian Pacific Islander Task Force - Breastfeeding Support Toolkit (Hindi)]]>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 22:10:41 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/asian-south-asian-pacific-islander-task-force-breastfeeding-support-toolkit-hindi
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<![CDATA[Asian South Asian Pacific Islander Task Force - Breastfeeding Support Toolkit (Tagalog)]]>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 21:57:09 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/asian-south-asian-pacific-islander-task-force-breastfeeding-support-toolkit-tagalog
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<![CDATA[Asian South Asian Pacific Islander Task Force - Breastfeeding Support Toolkit (Korean)]]>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 21:34:36 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/asap-breastfeeding-support-toolkit-korean
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<![CDATA[Asian South Asian Pacific Islander Task Force - Breastfeeding Support Toolkit (Japanese)]]>Tue, 23 Aug 2022 17:10:25 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/asian-south-asian-pacific-islander-task-force-breastfeeding-support-toolkit-japanese
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<![CDATA[Asian South Asian Pacific Islander Task Force - Breastfeeding Support Toolkit (Chinese Traditional)]]>Sat, 20 Aug 2022 14:57:10 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/asian-south-asian-pacific-islander-task-force-breastfeeding-toolkit-in-chinese-traditional
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<![CDATA[Asian South Asian Pacific Islander Task Force - Breastfeeding Support Toolkit 2022 (Vietnamese)]]>Fri, 19 Aug 2022 04:16:39 GMThttp://marigoldlactation.com/blog/asian-south-asian-pacific-islander-task-force-breastfeeding-support-toolkit-2022-vietnamese
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